About Do We Match
We built Do We Match for the conversations couples keep postponing.
Do you two actually match?
Not in the horoscope sense. In the everyday-life sense: money, family, children, future plans, conflict, attraction, intimacy, and the expectations that rarely fit into a first-date conversation.
Do We Match gives two people a private way to answer those questions separately before either person’s answer starts shaping the other’s.
Two people. Two honest perspectives. One shared check-up.
You both answer the same 16 questions — separately, in private.
Once you have both finished, Do We Match brings the two perspectives together into a shared relationship check-up. You see where you truly align, where the gap is larger than it looked, and which conversation may be worth having next.
Your partner receives the shared comparison, not a copy of your full submission.
Why separate answers matter
Some questions are easy until your partner answers first.
When should spending become a shared decision? How much access should family have? What do you need during conflict? What does “settling down” actually look like?
Answering separately gives each person room to respond before the conversation becomes a negotiation. The comparison comes afterward, when there is something concrete to talk about.
Meet Matchie
Matchie is our AI relationship consultant.
The score can show you where your answers line up or pull apart. Matchie helps you explore why. In optional paid analyses and private deep-dives, Matchie can use relevant context from your test to explain patterns, ask adaptive follow-up questions, and turn a vague gap into a conversation you can actually have.
Matchie is not a therapist, a mind reader, or a breakup oracle. AI-generated content can be incomplete or wrong, and it should never replace your own judgment or qualified professional support.
What you get
- The same 16 questions for both people
- Separate answers before the comparison
- A free match score and result preview
- A shared view of where you align and differ
- Optional paid access to more report detail and Matchie
- No account required
Private by default
The quiz uses nicknames and does not require an account. Pairing and report access is time-limited, and your partner receives the shared comparison rather than a copy of your full submission.
Keep your invite and report links private. For current retention details and the way optional AI features process relevant content, read the Privacy Policy.
Who it is for
Do We Match is for adults who have a real person in mind and who both choose to take part.
It can be useful when you are getting serious, thinking about moving in, considering engagement or marriage, or simply wondering whether the two of you are imagining the same future.
It is not a clinical assessment, therapy, counseling, a safety test, or a prediction of whether a relationship will last. It is a relationship clarity tool: a way to stop guessing and start a more honest conversation.
Want to see what the two of you would say?
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