You answer
The same questions about money, family, parenting, conflict, goals, intimacy, and chemistry — answered honestly, by text or voice. Just a nickname, no account.
Relationship compatibility test — not your horoscope
Do you two actually match?
Answer the same questions — separately, in private. Then a neutral AI reads both sides and gives your relationship a full check-up: where you match, why you clash, and how to bridge it.
100% anonymousJust nicknames — no accountNo peeking — ever
How it works
Three steps. No sign-up. No peeking.
Your partner answers — separately
Share your pairing code — it stays live for 72 hours. Your partner gets the same questions and never sees your answers.
A neutral AI judges both sides
It reads both sets of answers, scores where you truly match, flags the blind spots — and, in the deep-dive, digs into why you clash and how to bridge it.
The twist
Neither of you sees the other's answers.
You both answer separately. Neither sees the other's answers. Then we show you exactly where you line up — and the blind spots you didn't know you had.
Every other couples quiz has you answer side by side — where the honest answer quietly becomes the polite one. Double-blind kills the people-pleasing. That's the whole point.
Sample report
76% matchHow aligned you two are, topic by topic.
Money
In sync
Goals
In sync
Parenting
Big gap
Family
Some gap
Chemistry
Locked
Comm. style
Locked
Personality
Locked
Free shows your score and the open topics. Locked topics open with the full report — and the AI deep-dive digs into why and how.
Free vs the deep-dive
Free tells you where.
The deep-dive tells you why — and how.
Free = an instant score, with the juiciest topics locked. The deep-dive = one payment for the two of you — full report included, plus a real AI conversation that digs into why you clash and gives you a plan.
Your free result
- Your compatibility score and a short summary
- Topic-by-topic on the open topics: where you're in sync and where you clash
- Your single biggest blind spot, named
Sample
76% match
Money
In sync
Parenting
Big gap
Comm. style
Locked
Chemistry
Locked
Biggest blind spot: Parenting — you're assuming different futures.
$3.99 per person opens the locked topics — every difference point explained in detail, download or email included.
The AI deep-dive
One payment — for the two of you:
- A unique one-time pairing code — works exactly once, just for you two
- Full report included for both — every topic and detail, no per-person unlock
- A live conversation: a neutral AI reads both answers and asks adaptive follow-ups until the real reason surfaces
- Solutions, not just scores — practical advice for every problem it finds
AI deep-divereading both your answers…
You answered“I'd move anywhere for the right job.”
Partner answered“I'm never leaving this city.”
AI follows upThat's your widest gap. So what would actually have to change for one of you to budge — and who moves first?
AI suggestsTry the swap test: each of you lists what “home” gives you — then trade lists and talk it through.
Pay upfront for a one-time code — or upgrade a free result you've both just finished. Either way it covers exactly two people, never a third.
FAQ
Questions, answered. Separately, of course.
Is this a real relationship compatibility test?
Yes — real questions about how you two actually live: money, family, parenting, how you handle conflict, your dreams and goals, and how well you really know each other — plus attraction and your sex life, asked tastefully and sealed from your partner. The domains are informed by published relationship-assessment research, not astrology. It's built for entertainment and self-reflection, though — not clinical or therapeutic advice.
How do we take it together? How does the invite work?
You answer first — 3–4 minutes, typing or speaking your answers. You get an invite link and a pairing code to share with your partner. Whoever opens the link (or enters the code) answers the same questions separately, without ever seeing yours — anytime within 72 hours, before the code expires. Once you've both finished, a neutral AI reads both sides and builds one shared report. And yes — you each get to set one bonus question only your partner should know; the AI grades the answer.
Is it free? What's the paid part?
The test, your compatibility score, and the open topics are free — no account, no card. Locked topics — like chemistry, communication style, and personality — plus the full detail behind every difference point open with the full report: one-time $3.99, per person. The AI deep-dive works differently: one $13.99 payment covers you both — pay upfront for a unique one-time pairing code, or upgrade a free result you've both just finished. Either way you both get the full report plus a live AI conversation that digs into why you clash and what to do about it — for exactly two people, never a third.
Is the AI a therapist?
No — and it never pretends to be. It's a neutral analysis tool that reads both sets of answers and explains where they differ — for reflection and fun, not therapy or clinical advice. And it will never tell you to break up.
Do you store our answers?
No accounts, no profiles. Your answers exist only long enough to build your shared report — we can't sell what we don't keep.
Are we compatible if we score low?
A low score isn't a verdict — it's a map of where you two see things differently. Plenty of great couples score low and simply have more to talk about. Do We Match is for entertainment and honest conversation, not for deciding your future, and it will never tell you to break up.